26 January 2009

新年快樂

下週一是農曆春節,在中國稱作為春節或農曆春節。在中國以外的區域稱為中國人的新年。不論你如何稱呼它,它開始於中國農民曆的第一天,不同於穆斯林與希伯來人的月曆,這個假期開始於農民曆的第一天,結束於農曆十五,最後一天就是元宵節,但是不同國家的中國人通常只慶祝剛開始的前幾天。

對於年代的排序取決於你和誰談論,新年開始慶祝於4706年或4646年。在中國的部分地區稱為民國98年(像是台灣),年代的開始主要是因為朝代的替換,新朝代的開始就稱為元年,清朝是最後一個帝王統治的朝代,它結束於西元1911年,中華民國開始於西元1912年,近年多數的中國人開始使用羅馬的曆法而稱為西元2009年,不論你使用那種曆法(農民曆或是西洋曆),它即將由中國生肖的鼠年到今年的牛年。

在節慶的開始,家家戶戶會開始清掃門戶(又稱做大掃除)並貼上新的春聯。紅色在中國傳統是非常幸運的顏色,它也象徵了吉祥與喜樂。在春節期間,人們會用紅包裝入壓歲錢給年輕的成員。雖然到後來錢都花到7-11買東西,但裝了錢的紅包可以驅走不好的事情。單數(1.3.5.7.9)在中國人的眼中代表不吉利,雙數(2.6.8.10)就代表好事,所以中國人常說「好事成雙」。除了數字4對中國人來說代表不吉利外,因為發音與「死」相近。大部分的中國人喜歡「6」代表「六六大順」、「8」與「發」的發音表示「發財」與「賺大錢」。小孩常常會說些吉祥話向是「恭喜發財」、「新年快樂」,雙手環抱鞠躬來拿取紅包,當長輩看到小孩可愛的模樣,很難說「不」。

星期天就是農曆除夕(又稱大年夜),所有家中的成員會一起吃年夜飯(又稱圍爐)。年菜中一定會有鱼(象徵著年年有餘)、油角、年糕、羅漢齋等象徵著繁榮興旺。年夜飯也是一年當中最重要的一頓晚餐,傳統的習俗家人會再吃完年夜飯後到廟裡燒香祈求未來的一年平安順遂,但這幾年比較受歡迎的是除夕的跨年守歲活動。有些家庭在初一的早上會吃水餃,因為水餃的形狀和古時候的錢「元寶」相似,象徵著新的一年衣食無缺,有些家庭甚至會在水餃中包入新的硬幣,當你吃到包了錢幣的水餃會帶給你一年的好運。

在大年初一人們會去向家中的長輩拜年,有時需要長途跋涉或是搭乘大眾交通工具像是火車。去年中國遇到非常大的暴風雪,影響到上百萬人的返鄉之路。這天也是舞龍、舞獅與鞭炮聲齊鳴的時刻,比較大的城市像是北京和香港更將這種表演當成公眾的演出。農曆的初二也就是回娘家,這天所有出嫁的女兒,會從夫家返回家中探視他們的雙親或是祖父母。對少數人而言,這幾天需要花額外的時間返家探親與拜年。

經過三到四天的假期,大部分的人在農曆初五會回到工作崗位。但是過節的氣氛還是延續,人們還是會吃特別的食物與放鞭炮(煙火)。但相對的就比較少去跟親戚拜年。

農曆春節的第15天就是元宵節,這一天到處充滿著燈籠,公園與大眾場所也會掛滿著紅色的燈籠。也有大的展示會場展示各式各樣精刁細琢的花燈,小孩子則會提著小燈籠玩耍。也有一種稱為湯圓(裡面包著各種餡料,像是紅豆、芝麻、花生或是鮮肉),人們會在燈光與花燈籠罩的氣氛下享用湯圓。

新年快樂。

24 January 2009

Happy Birthday Ria

Tomorrow my baby sister turns 28. Not so much a baby anymore. Sorry, Mother.

17 January 2009

Full Moon Over Gaza


I don’t think it is technically a full moon, but there it is.

10 January 2009

9 January 1974

Earlier in the day it was just us sisters. We went shopping because that’s what Dara wanted to do. I don’t really like shopping much and shopping with my sisters can be draining. When I shop I go where I need to go, buy what I need to buy and go home. When the four of us are together it can take hours just to look at shoes. But I like to spend time with them and if they want to go shopping I’ll go along. I’ve made them do what I wanted to do plenty of times.

She would not want me to say but she is now 35 years old. She is so far over the hill that it is behind her. Next year instead of shopping we are comparing nursing homes.

04 January 2009

2008: It’s the End of the World As We Know It and I Feel Fine

My nephew Yoel had his bar mitzvah simcha. Mazel tov. I went to China for a little over a month. I visited friends in 安徽 , 江蘇 , 雲林 , and one of my favourite cities in the world 上海 . Paul McCartney came to Israel for the first and last time and I saw him in concert. Rock on. I dumped 2 boyfriends, 1 because of a stupid argument that highlighted a major flaw in our relationship and 1 because we simply weren’t compatible. I lost another boyfriend after he proposed marriage. I didn’t want to marry him and there wasn’t any going back at that point. More fish in the pond for me. I passed 1000 hours PIC in the 206. That brings me closer to my highest average in the 212. I like them both but the 206 is my favourite.

02 January 2009

Why Don’t We Do It in the Road

I asked him who sang “While My Guitar Gently Weeps”. He said Paul. Then John. Then George. I asked him who played lead guitar. He was sure it was a trick question so he said John. When I told him it was Eric Clapton he said, “I didn't know he was in the Beatles?”

Is it any wonder I dumped the guy?